Colossians 3

How do you know if you'll accomplish your dream(s) / calling?

Where do you get the fuel to pursue your dream(s) / calling?

What are you willing to do for your dreams / calling?

Noble's Lessons Learned from being a Geo-Bachelor for 1.5 weeks: Day 5

Noble's Lessons Learned from being a Geo-Bachelor for 1.5 weeks: Day 5

1. Sucks not having my wife & kid around.
2. It's very quiet around the house.
3. Kathy does a boat load of laundry.
4. I've done a load a day & it's just me.
5. I make a race out of folding the clothes, so that I can knock it out & plus b/c I feel a little less manly folding the clothes, so I wanna get it done as quickly as possible.
6. My bachelor diet consists of chips & salsa, protein shakes & green smoothies.
7. I like walking around the house naked.
8. I feel less encumbered w/out my ropas.
9. Sitting down w/out ropas is a little awkward...& chilly.
10. No this isn't racist, but colored laundry requires cold water to wash it. I love colored laundry. 
11. White laundry requires warm water.  It's kind of boring doing white laundry.
12. Again, I time myself doing laundry so I can make it more of a challenge & pretend that it makes it a little more manly while doing it.
13. Folding laundry while watching a manly action movie w/lots of shooting, guns, explosions & fighting makes the laundry-folding go by quicker & makes it feel a little more manly.  And if it's like a really good manly action flick, it's almost like you're not even folding the clothes.
14. It seems like someone needs to invent a washer-dryer-in-one combo. Someone should be smart enough to come up w/that.  
15. It's just inefficient taking the clothes out of the washer & putting them in the dryer...socks & underwear typically fall on the floor during the transition.  It seems like they would want a smoother transition by not having to leave the washer at all.
16. Don't go shopping when you're hungry AND you have no shopping list or game plan.
17. Having no shopping list or game plan makes for a very inefficient and expensive trip to the grocery store.  
18. At least take a basket or shopping cart along with you in the grocery store--especially if you're hungry & didn't go w/a shopping list.  If you don't take a basket or cart and your arms are already full by the 3rd aisle, you're screwed.
19. It's very awkward walking through a grocery store carrying a shopping cart's load of stuff in your arms...and then trying to open the glass doors in the refrigeration section.
20. It's almost like ice cream can do mental telepathy through the glass doors in the refrigeration section directly to your belly.
21. In that case it would be belly telepathy.
22. I'm familiar w/almost every aisle and just about everything looks good when you're hungry & my willpower isn't very strong...at least 4 or 5 things may have jumped into my arms that didn't have a high protein or vegetable content.
23. Due to the above lesson learned, I will pay dearly on my next PT (physical training) session.
24. I've got an amazing wife.
25. I've got amazing friends.
26. Tonight, when my kid said in her soft 4-yr old whimper over the phone..."I miss you, Papi." I just about lost it.  My eyes nearly sweated very manly tears.
27. I like talking to my wife on the phone, but would rather talk in person.  She has very hot eyes & a killer smile.
28. I re-use a lot of the same dishes so I don't have to do a lot of dish washer loads.
29. I'm a ninja at just rinsing the salsa out of the dish so I can re-use the bowl quickly. 
30. Bananas get brown fairly quickly.
31. Putting bananas in the fridge slows down the aging process. Helpful tip.
32. Wonder if it works on people.
33. The bed isn't as cozy at night.
34. Oh, the mail tends to fill up the mailbox quickly during the Christmas season if you don't check it everyday.
35. Companies spend a lot of money on junk mail...still.
36. Junk mail is still annoying.
37. I can hear the clock tick-tock in our house.  Never noticed it before. Audible reminder that time keeps ticking off my life whether I'm consciously aware of it or not.
38. I can keep the bathroom door open all the time.
39. The bathroom mirror doesn't fog up w/the door open while taking a shower.
40. Cleaning up little by little is a lot better than cleaning up mountains of krap all at once.
41. I have a lot of time to think.
42. I like thinking.
43. There are a lot of thoughts you can ponder in total silence.
44. I love & appreciate my family & friends.
45. I value that which I used to take for granted.
46. There's a lot of stuff that goes into running a home.
47. Neighborhood house alarms are annoying at 4am.
48. Dogs dig cops & firetrucks.
49. Dogs howling at cops & firetrucks are also annoying at 4am.
50. How often do I have intentional think time?
51. If you sleep under an airvent in your house, you'll wake up w/a very, very dry mouth--like you've just walked across the Sahara desert or just finished eating 11 Saltine crackers.
52. I love going to bed w/my blue girl in the winter. (it's my favorite blanket). No, I'm not quite as bad as Linus...but I do have a favorite blanket...and her name is Blue Girl...b/c she's blue & cozy.
53. If you don't do the laundry in a timely manner, it will put off a very un-Christmaslike aroma.
54. Trying to figure out what clothes to wear & what shirt matches what pants is stressful if you don't know the rules of matching.
55. I still don't know the rules of matching & I am married to a fashionista.
56. My fashion isn't necessarily the fashion that matches the rest of today's society.
57. If I just hang up my already worn shirts for a day or two, it sorta feels like it's clean & ok to wear again.
58. The above comment applies to pants as well...and socks.
59. Smell-good (cologne) does a pretty good job of masking the 2-day old already-worn shirt smell...or at least that's what I tell myself.
60. I'm bigger & stronger than most people that might have the stones to tell me I stink & smell like 2-day old already worn clothes.
61. My anal melancholy friends reading some of the above comments may need an oxygen mask to be resuscitated after reading the violation of so many anal melancholy rules.

Biggest highlight of 2011?

Biggest goal for 2012?

What are some of your top lessons learned for 2011?

Proverbs 3

Have you ever wondered what you could truly accomplish?

Do you underestimate yourself?

What are you thankful for?

Who is important to you & why?

What is the evidence that you've grown & changed this year for the better?

I'm thankful for my inner circle.

Are you inspiring? How do you inspire?

What are you doing to change the world?

Elena (4) just tip-toed up to me in her white fuzzy jammies & whispered in my ear..."It's time for Bedtime Ops, Papi."

Galatians 6:9-10

Isaiah 55

Can you change lives? How?

What dream are you currently pursuing?

Who do you consider a hero & why?

Just had a great coffee @Something's Brewing Coffee Shop off Raeford Rd! (7104 Fayetteville Rd, Raeford) (ok...& some chocolate covered coffee beans...ok, ok...& a chocolate covered cake popsicle!)

Psalm 121

Psalm 138

What makes life worth living?

What words are important to you?

Psalm 121

What's the biggest lesson you've learned so far in 2011?

What's the most recent thing you've learned?

How are you growing?

Proverbs 12

What are the fruits of your life?

Who are you becoming along the journey / path you're on?

How emotionally consistent are you?

How can you develop your emotional consistency / maturity?

What value do you place on other people--friends & strangers?

How much time do you invest in daily growing yourself?

What lesson / test are you consistently repeating? Why?

What lesson / test are you consistently repeating? Why?

How much time do you invest in daily growing yourself?

What value do you place on other people--friends & strangers?

How can you develop your emotional consistency / maturity?

How emotionally consistent are you?

2 Corinthians 12:9

What have you invested 10,000 hours into over the course of your lifetime?

What are you most intentional about?

What is one thing you've learned from the last book you've read?

Who are your closest friends & why are they your closest friends?

What would you like to be remembered for?

What will you be remembered for when you die?

What gives your life meaning?

How do you develop courage? Are you courageous?

After Elena reached out to hold my hand, I told her "Elena, you turn me into butter." She replied "Papi, you turn me into watermewan." :-)

How much do you value wisdom? (How can you tell?)

How much time do you spend with those that have different values than you?

What's the hardest lesson you've ever learned?

What's the next thing on your list to learn?

Would you rather be loved or feared? -Machiavelli

Are you intentional about learning?

What's the most recent thing you've learned?

When you use your super powers everyone wins. -me

That's the way to do it. That's old skool. There's no school like the old skool. -Old men in The Incredibles

Where is my super suit woman?!? -Frozone

"Doubt is a luxury we can't afford anymore. You have more power than you can ever imagine." Elastigirl

"Your identity is your most valuable possession." -Elastigirl

But you said we weren't supposed to use our superpowers! -Violet

"You, sir, truly are Mr. Incredible!" -Syndrome

"You are Elastigirl! Pull yourself together! You'll remind him who you are!" -Edna

Luck favors the prepared. -Edna

"I never look back darling; it distracts from the now." -Super hero fashion designer

I know you miss being a super hero. -Elastigirl

"You can still do great things...or...you can keep listening to police scanners." -Mirage

"What are you waiting for?" "I dunno! Something amazing, I guess!" "Me too, kid."

They keep celebrating new ways to recognize mediocrity. -Mr. Incredible

Where have all the super heroes gone? -The Incredibles

What life experiences have defined you? Why those?

Papi & Mommy are talking. Elena tries to interrupt. M tells E: "M is talking to P." Elena responds: "Yeah, but I'm talking to you!"

What determines what you value?

What makes life worth living for you?

What matters to you?

What do you appreciate?

Why do you do what you do?

What is your 'why'?

What makes people tentative? What's made you tentative?

Is it important to ask questions?

Who asks questions & why?

What makes decisions hard?

Can you waste life?

How do you determine the quality of your association?

Where have you become complacent & what are the potential repercussions?

If you knew everything I have for you, you'd change everything you needed to immediately. -God

As soon as Kath & Elena dropped me off, Elena said, "Mommy, Daddy gives me too many kisses. I dont need that many kisses!" What's up w/that?

Would you rather be happy or look happy? -Mike C.

What % of your daily conversations are productive?

What makes you laugh?

What are your top 2-3 fav books? Why?

What does God think about religion?

What % of time do you choose character over comfort?

Would you rather be a samurai or a ninja? -BPS

How do you get wisdom?

Do feelings matter? How? Why?

Proverbs 16

What did you learn from the last time you suffered?

What makes someone unteachable, unwilling to change?

What excuses are you making for yourself?

How can you challenge yourself today?

What are you currently pursuing?

I'm overwhelmed at God's love. Purely indescribable.

God let's us determine the level of relationship we have with Him. -Michael Fletcher

How well do you think you understand love?

What is the foundation of our country?

What are you willing to do for your kids (or future kids)?

What aren't you willing to do for your goals?

Is worrying productive?

Would that we lived our lives in such a way that others would want to learn from us. -David Roper

Is God intentional with us? How do you know?

There are some neat military displays down at the Special Operations Airborne Museum right now (Robeson & Hay St). Would be cool for kids!

Are you following a specific game plan to improve certain areas in your life?

Who makes you want to be better? Why?

What's the most recent thing that's caused you to want to change? Why?

What habits are you intentionally & unintentionally creating?

How many of your current habits did you intentionally create?

What would you regret the most if you died today?

In what areas of your life are you actively seeking to get out of your comfort zone?

How much growth is truly possible in your comfort zone?

How truly comfortable is your comfort zone?

Man is born free, yet everywhere he is in chains. -Jean-Jacques Rousseau

If your friends never saw you again, what would they remember about you?

What do you want out of tomorrow?

What is the purpose of your family? -Covey

What have you done with the talents you've been given?

What type of person do you respect?

How intentional are you with your dreams/goals?

What % of time each day do you use your strengths?

How do you change/improve the culture you're in?

What are you doing with your life?

What determines who/what you value?

What determines how good you are at making decisions?

What problem can you help solve for someone else?

What makes you feel the most significant?

What brings you the greatest joy?

What challenge have you recently overcome & how did you do it?

What/who has contributed most to your current thought process?

Who have you invested the most time in? What's been the ROI of your investment?

What blind spots have been discovered in your life the past year & how were they discovered?

How effective are you at handling conflict?

Who have you invested the most time in? What's been the ROI of your investment?

What/who has contributed most to your current thought process?

In the past 3 mos, what have been the magnitudes of the things that have upset you?

What challenge have you recently overcome & how did you do it?

Where are your habits taking you?

How much effort are you giving at living?

What kinds of things do you let bother you? What does that say about you?

What perplexes you?

Outside of yourself, who has contributed most to where you're at in life?

What's the biggest thing that's ever inspired you? Why did it have that impact on you?

Do you know your strengths? How are you developing your strengths?

How often do you complain? Has it helped? Has it become a habit?

What's the most recent thing you've learned from a child?

In what area(s) of your life do you consistently demonstrate a near perfect performance?

Simple, easy explanation = simple, easy answer. -J.Pici

What % of time do you think of yourself? How can you change the %?

What do you feel called to?

Have you ever failed in more areas than you've succeeded in? What did you do to move forward?

What does 'freedom' mean to you?

What fulfills you?

How do you motivate/encourage yourself?

What do you relish? (I'm not talking Vlassic...) :-)

What's impossible?

What adventure are you on?

What strengthens?

What thrills?

What transcends?

What inspires?

What erroneous beliefs do you have about life?

Matthew 12:35-37

Proverbs 29:11

What are the life-ramifications for not knowing why you exist?

What defines an entrepreneur?

When you are unclear about your WHY, WHAT you do has no context. -Simon Sinek

What's one thing you could do to move forward in your life...closer to your goal and/or purpose?

What areas of your life are you intentional about?

What relationships are you intentional about?

What is the value of getting out of your comfort zone?

What will you do today that gets you out of your comfort zone?

2 Cor 12:8-10

2 Corinthians 13

john 15:7

I'm enjoying the fruit of discipline enough that the discipline isn't as painful anymore. -Kathy Gibbens

Jeremiah 31:1-4

When is the last time you've made significant, positive, lasting change? How'd you do it?

How good are you at change?

How much of what you do everyday is based on how you feel?

How did you establish your priorities? (Intentionally? Does your budget & calendar match your priorities?)

Does your daily schedule align w/your deepest values?

What does your inner circle reflect about who you are & what you value?

Psalm 121

What's the evidence or proof of your teachability?

You matter.

What expectations do you have of yourself?

What does where you're at say about who you are?

The hour of deepest humiliation, when we feel defective & utterly disqualified may be the hour that God uses us in unparalleled ways.-DRoper

Anything is possible with God, even failure. -F.Smith

Do you want to make a difference? Why?

When in your life have you made a significant change & why?

Why wouldn't you do something you know is good for you?

Who / what controls you?

How do you know when your thought process is inaccurate?

There is no finish line. --T-shirt at the gym

What's your story?

What is man's nature?

God's anger must be released by a stiff safety lock, but His mercy has a hair trigger. -John Piper

There is a line, by us unseen, That crosses every path; The hidden boundary between God's patience & his wrath. -Joseph Addison Alexander

It is strange: but life's currents drift us So surely & swiftly on That we scarcely note the changes & how many things are gone. FBMeyer

What's more important, the process or the result? Why?

Can you be homesick for a place you've never been? -Mechanic

Is justice blind? -MS

If infinity is your timeline, then your solution appears immediately. -MS

Serve someone today!

Encourage someone today!

You matter.

Over the course of your life, have you invested more time on improving your strengths or weaknesses? How has it helped?

What is the most important leadership quality?

What affects your effectiveness?

What impacts your productivity?

Can your maturity level regress? How? Why?

What's been the hardest thing for you to change? Why?

Is 'comfortable' God's will?

Is there a relationship between faith & sin? If so, what is it?

How actively are you following your purpose?

What is the evidence of God in your life?

Conflict crystallizes.

Complacency kills.

Was/is Jesus tolerant?

Was/is Jesus open minded?

My job is to comfort the disturbed & disturb the comfortable. -bumper sticker

How do you influence those around you?

Mark 10:13-16

Judges 8:34-35

What are some examples of the Lord working in your life?

Thank You, Lord, for my best friend, Kathy, and our super little world changer kid, Elena!

Thank You, Lord, for the amazing people You've placed in my life!

Thank You, Lord, for another day to bless, serve and/or encourage someone!

How can you look at your current greatest challenge from a different, more productive perspective?

What impacts your productivity?

How productive are you?

Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world. Indeed it's the only thing that ever has. -M.Mead

Courage is not the absence of fear, but rather the judgement that something else is more important than fear. -A.Redmoon

Adversity has the effect of eliciting talents, which in prosperous circumstances would have lain dormant. -Horace

We would accomplish many more things if we did not think of them as impossible. -V.Lombardi

That which we persist in doing becomes easier, not that the task itself has become easier, but that our ability to perform it has. -Emerson

Make sure the thing you're living for is worth dying for. -Charles Mays

Dreams have a tendency to die, not because the dream is unworthy, but because the dreamer gave up too soon. -D.Dickerson

How you treat people is a clear reflection of the value you place on them. -D.Dickerson

What is your cause?

What's more important: what, why or how?

You're on the airplane of your habits. Where is your flight taking you? What is the destination that your daily decisions are taking you to?

"The only way to grow is to do something you're afraid of." -Cara (Is that true?)

You can't unscramble an egg, but you can turn it into an omelet. -L. Crockett

Listening to a Billionaire...(seriously)

What does the "American Dream" mean to you?

This am our 3yr old girl says "Papi I love you" I say "You made me into butter" I said "I love you!" She said "You turned me into nuggets"

Ephesians 6

Do something great today!

Anyone seen the recent documentary on America's financial institutions called "Inside Job"? Very, very interesting! Thoughts?

What are you still wanting to learn?

2 Kings 6:8-23

Would you rather have tepid success w/something that doesn't matter or a brilliant failure w/something that does? -Alan M. Webber

Once again...356 Inc Mobile Auto Services / Monty Holden saved the day!!!

How lucky for those in power that people do not think. -Adolf Hitler (Wow...that's no joke. Borrowed this quote from friend, Danielle.)

Luke 15

On our road trip, our 3.5 yr old kid said, "Whew, I'm smoked!" We started laughing & she said, "Waugh harder!" We waughed harder!

Who has made a difference in your life & why?

Who defines what 'good character' is? What is the standard for 'good character'?

What governs your behavior?

What is character?

How do you recharge / refresh?

How do you motivate yourself?

Who will you encourage today?

What will you accomplish today?

Psalm 62:11-12

"Are you there? Say a prayer for the Pretender / Who started out so young & strong / Only to surrender." -Jackson Browne "The Pretender"

The tragedy of life is what dies inside a man while he lives. -Albert Schweitzer

He begins to die, that quits his desires. -George Herbert

Psalm 139:23-24

What's the hardest part of becoming successful?

Psalm 19

In what ways do you enjoy expressing your strengths?

How will you make a difference today?

How can you ensure the quality of your daily decisions?

How can you live 'inspired'?

What nonverbal messages are you sending when communicating with others?

What determines your ability to connect with others?

How well do you connect with others?

What % of time do your words & actions align?

What are you the most intentional about?

Are those around you growing? Are you?

How are you developing those around you?

What's the most inspiring thing you've experienced?

What can you do to encourage someone today?

Our 3.5 yr old, Elena told me "Papi, the music is making my shoes tap."That's how I know she's mine b/c that's what happens to my shoes too!

How do you determine what's important?

You are a solution to someone else's problems. -MMurdock

Who can you serve today?

Do something great today!

Who do you need?

Who needs you?

How do you define "quality relationships"?

What's the key to growth?

What's the key to learning?

Beth Bell told Elena (our 3yr old), "I think I'm done playing puzzles." To which Elena responds, "No you're not, silly." :-)

Who are you neglecting? Why?

Psalm 37

What dream or goal are you currently pursuing?

Is what you do who you are or is who you are what you do?

What's the relationship between discipline & freedom?

What's the relationship between discipline & relationships?

You matter

What % of things do you do daily that don't get you closer to your goals?

What's the cumulative affect of your current thought process?

Casual commitment yields casualties. -WCalendar

If you get in business for no reason, you'll quit business for no reason. -WC

How do you view failure?

What are you willing to give up (temporarily or permanently) to accomplish your goal?

What's more important to you--time or $?

How good are you at delayed gratification? What determines whether you're good at it?

How are you intentionally building relationships with those around you?

Who are you following? -R.C.

Are you at in life where you want to be? Why? Why not?

How much effort are you giving life right now?

What attracts people to others?

How do you unify a team?

How hungry & willing are you to change & grow?

What's the most effective way to assimilate the mindset of those you respect & look up to the most?

When do you need to refuel...when your tank is full or when it's empty? Where/how do you refuel?

Two kinds of people who fail: those who listen to everyone & those who listen to no one. -Rastogi

What are you currently focused on the most?

What's the most recent 'aha' moment you've had?

What can be learned from those closest to you?

Let others lead small lives, but not you. -Valerie Solodyakin

What are you intentionally learning?

What % of your strengths are you using on a daily basis?

Can you be a great leader w/out enemies or critics?

Can their be growth without discomfort?

What determines someone's impact on our lives?

Have you ever been controlled by someone? How? Why?

What was the last thing you complained about? Have you taken 100% responsibility of your life? How do you know?

Can someone "make" you feel offended, happy or sad, excited or mad? How?

How can someone "make" you feel a certain way?

What do authority & responsibility have to do with each other?

What's the relationship between your leadership or influence & your emotional quotient or neediness?

Is it necessary or important to get out o your comfort zone? What's the benefit?

How do you get out of your comfort zone? How frequently do you get out of your comort zone?

What and/or who do you appreciate the most? Why?

What makes life worth living?

How do you define 'happiness'? When have you been the happiest?

How are you growing your character? Are you tracking your growth? How?

How can you inspire someone today?

How can you serve someone today?

How will you bless someone today?

Bible Study on "Finding Your Purpose" at our house tonight at 7pm

How does 'influence' work?

How do you create inner drive? -D.Lindsay

Is your "Why" strong enough or big enough to figure out "How"?

Have you ever been "burned out"? Why does "burn out" occur?

How important are relationships to you? How intentional are you about your relationships?

Who matters to you? Why? What threads of continuity do those that matter to you have in common?

What is your "intention"?

What does "motivation" mean to you? Is it important? How? Why?

What's the most recent thing you've learned? How has it impacted you?

What are the chances of you accomplishing your dreams?

How important are dreams? Why are they important?

What causes someone to lose their dream(s)?

Matthew 25:14-30

How can you be a blessing in someone else's life today?

Psalm 78

When have you felt the most significant?

When are you the happiest?

How do you expect to change when you don't spend time with The One Who brings about the change?

Did you accomplish your 2010 goals? What will make 2011 different?

How do you recharge your own personal 'battery'?

What's the biggest thing you've learned this week?

How can you be more effective at making a difference?

What are your favorite books?

What are your favorite movies?

What drives you?

What are you passionate about?

Have you ever been deceived? How does that happen? Have you ever been deceptive? What is the result/outcome?

What is your belief system based on? Does it matter?

How can you make a difference today?

Who can you bless today?

Who can you encourage today?

How can you inspire inspire someone today?

How are you different today than you were a year ago?

What does this describe: empty promises, shallow fulfillment, meaningless significance, beautiful ugliness, boring fun...

Are you open to looking at your life & seeing where you need to change?

Do you have any incorrect thought processes? How do you know? How did you get them? What are you doing about it?

What is happiness? How important is it? Are you happy?

What was the biggest thing you learned in 2010?

What was one of your highlights of 2010?

What is it that makes people heroes? -BBiro

What is the difference between knowing & doing?

Is there a difference between obsessive & motivated?

How do you distinguish yourself?

Matthew 25:14-30

What is 'submission' a function of?

What is 'obedience' a function of?

How are you progressing with your 2011 goals?

What value do you add to your inner circle?

Did Jesus tolerate others opinions?

How do you know the goals you chose for 2011 are the right goals?

Are you fulfilling your own self-fulfilling prophecy? What is it?

Do you have any emotional injuries that are holding you back? How can you get beyond those? Who can get you beyond those?

Can emotional scars be healed? How?

How does your personality affect how you process information? Is it important to be aware of that? What do you do w/that information?

How do you renew your mind?

Are your emotions reliable? -MFletcher

How do you define 'significance'?

What would you like to be known for?

What are you most known for?

How do you make those closest to you feel? (What would they say?)

What's the question you should be asking yourself?

Which comes first, the winner's mindset or the win? -B.Biro

If you could only accomplish one goal in 2011 for 2011 to be considered a success, what goal would it be?

When have you been the most consistent in pursuing your goals? How long were you consistent?

How are you tracking on your 2011 goals?

Who possesses the traits you most admire? How much time do you spend with them?

What determines the strength of your beliefs?

What's it gonna take for you to commit to changing your life? -KevinB.

How can you become more effective at motivating yourself?

How do you motivate yourself?

You can live your life anyway you want to, but you can only live your life once. Choose well. -JCMaxwell

What are you busy doing? How productive is your 'busyness'? -RickF.

How long will you keep doing something that doesn't work? --RickF.

How do you protect your mindset? Should you?

What type of people go the extra mile?

What creates a memory?

What does repentance mean?

What values are most important to you?

Do you not like to do things b/c you don't do them well or do you not do things well b/c you don't like to do them? -Mike C.

Is there value or credence to a man's identity with what he does?

What is faith? How do you get it? How do you grow it? Can you make it "unshakeable"?

Is vengeance a lazy form of grief?

What determines whether or not you will accomplish your goals in 2011?

What destination are your habits currently taking you?